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Beginners Guide to Findom

You’ve had a long term curiosity about Financial domination and always wondered what it would be like to act it out for real.  Before you begin on this new wonderful submissive way of life, you must remember that Findom is very REAL. It is not a fantasy. It is a REAL way of life. Yes there is danger. Yes there is great risk, but the exhileration you will experience is unmatched in the fetish world. Whereas bondage and BDSM inflicts temporary pain, findom inflicts long term pain which lasts way longer with bigger consequences. This is what makes Financial Domination SO exciting, SO exhilerating and delivers SO much more satisfaction.

This is why I have written my Beginners Guide to Findom and Financial Domination.  What better way than to start off on the right track than by reading through the advice of a real Financial Domme.

Firstly, start with little things – don’t buy yourself a lunch at work and give money to Me, Mistress Boss Labet .  Embrace the fact that you’re doing this just because I am superior and sexy.  Realize that this is REAL, a real form of slavery where you are sacrificing your needs for Me, the ultimate Mistress.  You are REALLY not buying lunch, and you are REALLY giving me something useful.  Think about that for a while.

Realize that this simple act, act of sacrificing your lunch and tributing Me, your  Powerful Mistress, makes you my slave.  My REAL slave, who is giving Me REAL things. Think about how sexy I am – it’s good to have your favorite picture of Me, Mistress Boss Labet with you.  Save it on your phone, and look at Me, look into My eyes while deciding to not buy lunch and tribute Me.
Think about REAL slavery, sacrifice and Me, a true Powerful Mistress as long as you’ll feel the pleasure.
Remember that tributing is a ritual that makes you My slave. Focus on the pleasure you are getting from it. Tributing = pleasure. Tributing is a visible sign, a proof that you’re inferior and I am superior. Look deep into My eyes and whisper it to yourself: “Mistress Boss Labet is superior”. If you must – touch yourself.
Then, when the pleasure is at it’s peak –

It’s always good to start with little things – it can be your lunch, it can be a cinema ticket, it can be a new set of tools. It is important that it should be REAL. That’s the only way you can make it feel REAL. Deny yourself a REAL thing and give the Me REAL money/gift.
Just try. In my opinion findom is the best form of slavery, because it’s a real deal. There’s no pretending, no acting.  You’re sacrificing something, and I (the Powerful ebony Mistress ) gets something real. Of course you will feel the pleasure of tributing, and I (the Mistress ) will feel the pleasure of knowing that you’re becoming Her slave, that you are willing to please Me (the Mistress ). Pleasure gets more intense, when the act is real.
Need a little more convincing?
Adopt a Bill, apply as a slave and/or sit down, relax and watch any or all of My Financial Domination videos.

Beginners Guide to Findom
By Mistress Boss Labet
Financial Dominatrix

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